1st talk about everyone has some initial needs2- expand your talk about initial needs to sex 3- tell her there is no need to have sex (now she is confused)4- then bring the talk to no feeling sex 5- then you can talk about some no string attached stories6- she is ready , eat her and...
if you don't love each other then you can, if you do: GO FUCK YOURSELF
if u don't love her/him then you can,but if you love her/him go FUCK yourself